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		<title>How To Have Confidence With People In The Day Ahead</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Aug 2004 19:49:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>peter1510</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Assertive Communication ]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Self Confidence Builders]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Self Esteem Tips]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Question: What is the worst thing you can do when you start your day? Answer: Wake up feeling lethargic and expect yourself to perform at 100% from the moment you get up in the morning; and then compare how you are doing during the day against this unrealistic benchmark. There is a better way! As [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Question:</p>
<p>What is the worst thing you can do when you start your day?</p>
<p>Answer:</p>
<p>Wake up feeling lethargic and expect yourself to perform at<br />
100% from the moment you get up in the morning; and then<br />
compare how you are doing during the day against this<br />
unrealistic benchmark.</p>
<p>There is a better way!</p>
<p>As you wake up in the morning take charge of your thoughts in<br />
that early morning awareness before you fully awake.</p>
<p>Do this before you get up out of bed by repeating some<br />
affirmations. Affirmations work very well WHEN you say them with<br />
strong feelings in a state of deep relaxation.</p>
<p>If you have heard about affirmations before and never got the<br />
maximum benefit from them it is because you did not know how to<br />
take a very ordinary approach and supercharge it.</p>
<p>Supercharging affirmations depends on four factors:</p>
<p>- Phrasing affirmations in the right way<br />
- Choosing ones that are right for you<br />
- Saying them while in a state of deep relaxation<br />
- Speaking them with strong feeling</p>
<p>At the end of this message I will tell you how to get fr*e tips<br />
from an expert that will explain the nuts and bolts of<br />
affirmations.</p>
<p>But for now&#8230;</p>
<p>When you use affirmations correctly their impact will last for at<br />
least a few hours &#8211; long enough to get you started on the day<br />
ahead.</p>
<p>Pay close attention now because I am going to reveal details of<br />
some of my personal and very private habits&#8230;</p>
<p>I use the following affirmations to help me get up in a positive<br />
state of mind:</p>
<p>- Positive thoughts bring me the benefits I desire</p>
<p>- Negative thoughts have no influence over me</p>
<p>- Everyday and in everyway I am getting better and better</p>
<p>To start the day with confidence&#8230;</p>
<p>- I am confident and charming with the people I meet</p>
<p>- I radiate confidence and relaxation</p>
<p>- I start great conversations easily and effortlessly</p>
<p>- I approve of myself and feel great about myself</p>
<p>- I have sky-high self-esteem</p>
<p>You can do the same.</p>
<p>Remember to say these affirmations with feeling and do so quietly<br />
inside your head while in that relaxed awakening state.</p>
<p>Unless I use this ritual each morning I tend to feel negative<br />
about the day ahead. The difference from feeling negative to<br />
feeling positive is huge for the sake of those few minutes in the<br />
morning.</p>
<p>You can also go one step further and imagine the day ahead<br />
working out well. See yourself doing your best and easily dealing<br />
with challenges. Imagine yourself feeling confident and behaving<br />
in that way no matter who you deal with.</p>
<p>Imagine you will have a great day in this way and you are<br />
directing your unconscious to make it happen in the language it<br />
understands best &#8211; feelings and images.</p>
<p>Forget about will power.</p>
<p>Will power is a waste of time because it´s like talking to the<br />
most powerful part of your mind in a language it does not<br />
understand.</p>
<p>Peter Murphy is a peak performance expert. He recently<br />
produced a very popular free report: 10 Simple Steps to<br />
Developing Communication Confidence. Apply now because<br />
it is available for a limited time only at:<br />
<a href="http://www.howtotalkwithconfidence.com/report.htm">http://www.howtotalkwithconfidence.com/report.htm</a></p>
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