7 Ways To Make a Great First Impression
by Peter Murphy
When you have an important event to attend there are 7 great ways to make sure
you perform at your very best. These tips are relevant for social events and
business meetings. Discover how to communicate with confidence while making
great conversation.
1. Decide what you want to say before the event. Review it in your mind to make
sure it sounds okay. Keep rehearsing it until you can say it with conviction and
confidence.
2. Consider your potential listeners. Who will you be talking to and which
topics of conversation will be welcome? You need to make sure your message
matches your audience.
3.Be yourself. The worst mistake is to pretend you are something you are not.
People will see through you and distrust everything you say. Even if you
communicate clearly and with confidence.
4. Never expect things to work out perfectly. Be ready to deal with problems by
deciding in advance what you will do. What will you do if people ignore your input? Now is the time to decide and not
later on in the heat of the moment.
5. Be flexible in your approach. Different people need to be treated
differently. Pay very close attention to how people respond to what you say and
keep adjusting your approach until you have a good rapport with your listener.
6. Make the other person the focus of your attention and let him lead the
conversation in the early stages. Let that person steer the conversation onto
topics that are of interest to him.
7. Anticipate what could go wrong. Then do what you can to make sure those
scenarios do not occur. Adequate planning is the key to performing at your best
in the moment.
Peter Murphy is a peak performance expert. He recently
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